SACRED RELATIONSHIPS-HEALING RITUAL OUTLINE September 21, 2009
By Katarine Anu
Introduction:
This ritual is designed primarily to free up the energy spent in maintaining an attachment to the hurtful events of the past, and to empower the self to move forward, in a creative and healed manner.
I. Clarifying the events:
A. Review the events as we remember them.
B. Review the events from a detached, observer vantage point.
C. Did this event trigger similar unresolved past events?
D. Review where in the body the event is stored.
II. Forgiving the self:
A. For any feelings of helplessness, loss of self, anger, regret, betrayal.. etc.
B. For any realistic or unrealistic expectations held about the person/s involved.
C. For any part played in the unfolding of events (even if only that of participant).
III. Detaching from the other:
A. Visualization of the other, or others (individual or group)
B. Heart conversation directed at the others heart. (this is most effective if you can feel yourself in the center of loving feelings, filled with love {this is truly for you and not for the others benefit}).
Your speech needs to be clear about your feelings and free of anger. This conversation happens without words spoken out-loud.
* If this is a destructive relationship you are choosing to end, after sharing your feelings, you will then tell the other that they are permanently released from any connection to you in any fashion, and that you are no longer available to feed their energy needs. Again, this conversation happens without words spoken out-loud.
C. Cutting of the cords.
Any and all ties/cords to the individual/s/group/s will be cut. (this is not a bad thing)
Use the withered ends technique (the ends that connect to each of you wither and dissolve).
IV. Sealing the wounds:
Fill each space where a cord was with a brilliant golden, or white, or green, or pink light
Seal each space with the Reiki healing symbol (Sei He Ki)(or any sacred symbol that represents healing to you)
V. Reclaiming the energies:
A. Visualization of universal energies filling the self; Pull this energy from above and below.
B. Visualize that you are in the center of a swirling cauldron of energy.
This energy connects you to the subtle life force in everything
This energy fills you with feelings of belonging on the deepest level of being.
You have no need or wish that is unfulfilled from this place.
Conclusion: This healing rite is extremely powerful in clearing away emotional debris, damaging events, and restoring the self to correct relationship for those that follow this rite with a willing and receptive heart. This rite can even heal old emotional wounds that have festered and poisoned the self over many years.